LIFE IS A JOURNEY

Yesterday was one of the most difficult days of my life, these difficult days come along some times to make us realize the value of the good easy days. There are about a hundred or two hundred more such days to come in the journey of our life. Emotions play an important part of our journey, they are like tools that help us shape ourselves and define us in the eyes of others as well as in our own eyes.

Today was one of those days when my emotions were running wild all over the place. Making me feel unhappy, I was almost going to cry. I was one of those people who used to cry at the drop of a hat, I would cry even when I was fighting with someone. There have been some major changes in my life because of which it has now become difficult to cry in front of someone. I don't know whether I have grown stronger or whether slowly I have become indifferent to the circumstances and situations around me. I feel almost like a stone that is not allowing the natural course of the water to flow.

I am sure that everyone of us in our life, leave some of our loved ones behind and move on to build a future for ourselves. I have made some of the same moves. I have left behind some close and loving people. Some of them with time have come back into my present and I am pretty happy about it, these people are meant to stay with me for some more time, maybe till the end of my journey.

Someone told me that there will be a lot of people who will come in and out of my life because life is like a train which starts at the station of ones birth and ends at the station of death. At the start, some people get in like your family members, from there on the train journey of life keeps on stopping at different stations. At each station some people get on and some people get off, but the train keeps moving on towards it destination. Some people stay from the start of your journey to the end, some join you in the middle and leave you in the middle of your journey, but some other join in the middle and stay till the end. Each one of these people leaves a little bit of themselves with you, for you to remember that they traveled on your train for some time.

Each one of these people who come into your life come for a reason. They take you from one point of life to another and when their time is up they move away on their own journey. A journey which each one of us has to take on our own. The journey of the soul. Whatever happens you must not forget that each one of these people come into your life at a time when you need them the most, they help you in the journey, they teach you the things they know and understand about life. They are with you till you need them and then somehow time takes them to a different place.

All I am saying is that don't cry when you lose a friend or a loved one because he/she has a journey of his/her own too. He might be a passenger on your train, but at the same time he has a train of his own on which you are a passenger, you both have your own train routes to follow. So just go with the flow, you never know what awaits you ahead. Let time and tide speak for themselves and if time wants you to meet a person or people you have left behind on your journey, then one day your train will stop at a station and to your disbelieve the person will walk back onto your train. This will give you a chance to keep the person with you for as long as tide wants you to.

Remember that with A GAIN OF ONE KIND THERE IS A LOSS OF ANOTHER AND WITH A LOSS OF ONE KIND THERE IS A GAIN OF ANOTHER.
I hope I have helped you in some way after all there is a reason why you are reading this blog, maybe you don't know it right now but soon you will know. Through my writings, I am a passenger on your train too.