CONFIDANCE

These days I have started to believe that there is something wrong with me. I have a problem I need answers and to be very honest I don’t know whether I like the answer so in a way I don’t want them either is that easy to understand or normal for that matter.

U know what this is right, its lack of self confidence specking. And self confidence is something that we should have in today world. But do you and I have it. Can you stand in front of someone who barely knows you but is talking negative things about u and not believe them. NO I know for sure that the human mind believes negative faster than the positive. That is when self confidence plays an important role. We need to know what we are good at something for that matter we need to believe that we are good at something.

What I’m trying to say is that every person has his strong and weak points but that does not mean that we should forget that we are just humans and that perfection is something that only God has on his side. We as humans are good at only few thing and we need to be confident about these things and remember them when someone shows us our draw backs.

If u think that you’re not good that anything, then u need to take a closer look inside yourself. We are all good at something. You know I come across to be pretty dumb when I am talking and most of the people who are close to me have told me this, I used to feel and still feel very bad about this, but now I started to believe that the only way I can come across as someone how as a brain is in my writing. I find that I am confident about my writing and even though I have a lot of scope to improve, I am till confident that I can write. So I found writing to be something that I am good at. It keeps me happy when someone tells me that I have ones again put my foot into my month, my only thought is we I get home I will write something, that will make a lot of sense and then I will feel better and the confidences will come back . It also means that I need to learn to come across to be smart talker and a smart mind also because I am not dumb no matter what they think after the first time I talk to them. Now this is what you call CONFIDANCE.

So you see not everyone is perfect but confidence and help you to overcome your difficulties. I was also confident that ones I write this I will come to the answers I really want. You know what? The answers are always inside you all u need is to know the way to get to them. But as you know CONFIDANCES ALWAYS LEADS THE WAY.

Now I hope I have come across to be a smart person… lol…. I also hope that this blog has helped you to understand yourself or someone you know better. I it has help u, I am glad you could read this and I could be of help. If this has helped you understand someone close to you, maybe you should ask them to read this too. Cause that way u would help me…. THANK YOU…

CELEBRATING EACH DAY WITH LOVE...

Today all around me everyone was celebrating the love they have for each other and I was looking at them as a person who does not understand why we need a day to celebrate love. Why can’t we just enjoy the love we have for the other person every day? Why wait for this one day?

Is LOVE something that we can only celebrate on days like Valentine’s Day or on the anniversary of a wedding/relationship. Is there not a need to celebrate every moment in our life, should we only wait for these days to come or should we enjoy and bask in its galore everyday of our lives?

On a day to day base we take each other for granted, we fight, we have bitter emotions, we almost make each other’s life living hell and then when these days come up it like you forget the rest and for the world u celebrate. On the other hand if we just spend nice time with each other and enjoy every second spend together will it not be a better gift then the ones give on a special occasion. Each little gesture would be a gift, a holding of hands when u cross the road, a little smile on a personal joke, a hug when ur happy, the holding of ur loved one when he or she is upset, making ur someone laugh when he is in the worst of moods, the shine in one’s eyes when you meet after a long time.

I think each person has his own thinking and mine is subjected to change, for sometimes I think we need these special days because we sometimes forget to show the other person his important and on these days we can make each other feel loved. In our day to day life we are all after growth, money, enrichment of life and things that in today world have taken the place that love and family used to have in one’s life.

But that still does not stop me from wanting to see a world in which love would be celebrated on a daily base; love is one thing that can fulfill a person’s life. It completes the individual’s life making one feel one’s emotions on a great level.

As most practical people will say ones one’s career is in place the rest will fall in on its own. I am hoping these people are right, because sometimes I feel they might just get a little late. All I hope is that we all find that special someone on day and that we celebrate each moment with them without taking it for granted. Love is a very difficult thing to find, ones u find it one should look after it the best one can.

I wish life was as simple as I wanted then there would be no ego or super ego. I wish there were thing that could make love work its magic every second of the day. I wish some relationship did not end the way they do. I miss the magic of love sometimes but then I think of the good memories I have and say it was the right thing to do. For sometimes new memories have to be made and who knows maybe the next time u get a chance to celebrate each second.

I hope that my writing inspires you to fall in love and celebrated it the best u can. I also know that every relationship has its own ups and downs and that after every down there is an up. This is what makes life interesting but don’t forget to celebrate it, they will make the good memories for u to look back on when ur old…..

You may think that in the middle of this piece I have gone to negative about relationship but I was talking about the worst of the feeling one goes through when loved one’s are fighting. I am not talking about my personal life or anyone else it’s just an outlook that I choose to write about… Thank u…

May God Bless u. Happy Celebrating. :D