CHOICES :D

I have been thinking for the last 2 days about a topic on which I could write this a blog. I really cant make up my mind there are a lot of options in today date and time. I don't understand how everyone expects us to make the right choices. Cause everyone seems to forget that a choice, being right or wrong is subjective in nature.

When we are 3yrs old our family members make the choices of which school to but us, when we are in out 8th the entire family comes to give tell us what they think we should take up in our Jr.College, at this stage even our friends, there family and people standing in the college admission line like to give us some advise on what field to take between Arts, Science etc.. For me this choices was made in 10th and my mom, let me make my own choice of field and subjects that I wanted to study cause at the end of the day it was me who had to go to class and write the exam. But this does not mean that people did not come with their advise to me.

Anyhow my choice worked out to be right for me. But there are other people out there who have made mistakes by choosing the wrong subjects and some of them under pressure have also chosen the wrong field altogether. Then there is the choice of college, which lucky or unlucky is depend on the marks and field u choose. Then if u don't get into the right college everyone will come to give u advise about all kinds and types of thing.

Should we as a society subject each other to these kind of pressures. We have in the past seen the negative effects of these social evils. Young kids committing suicides and trying to runway from home.

These are the choices we face at a young age, they end up making or braking us as a person. So how does on understand or get to know in the start itself the outcome of the choice?

Then there are more choices that are of important's such who to start dating, who to make friends with, who to married to?, etc. and at different stages one will get different advise from everyone around, but at the end of the day the choices are ours to make and no one is to blame for them. In the start this is a little difficult to follow, but we have to at some age start to take the blame or credit for our choices.

I have made a lot of choices some have been right some have been wrong but the only difference between me and most others is the fact that I can now look back and say that all my choices whether good or bad have been mine. I am whole and solely responsible for them. This attitude of mine will take me a long way in my future I wish other follow my example and start taking the strings of their life in their own hand.

So wake up make ur own choices, don't let ur thoughts pull u down cause no matter how much us think about the outcome of a choice it will not be know till the end. Some times a choice that was good at the start ends up being a bad choice and sometimes a bad choice truns out to be a good one. All in all one can never tell for sure, there is only one thing to do in that case "GO WITH THE FLOW" don't fight the current cause that may not be the right thing to do or who know that may just be the right thing. Let not forget that there are chances that the right choice in ur eyes is the wrong one in mine and the other way around as well.

IN THE END WHO KNOW ?

MY ANSWER WILL BE GOD KNOW... :D

But then again u are the best judge of ur surrounding and u can help ur life make the right choice. So have faith in ur choices, take everyone's advise but make ur own choice.

A very wise man has said the choices is between the Good and Better or Bad and Worse. Because in the choice of Bad and Good we but naturally choice the Good.

That all I have to say today. Ones again thank u for ur time and sorry for the mistakes I may have made while writing this blog.

Some people..... Arghhhhh...

U know there are these people in ones life who always have a bad sense timing, everyone of us has one of these kind in our life's and one such person in my life these days is Ajinkya Wadhwa. He was in the same Jr. College as me. I study Arts and he was studying Science then. Most people at that time had problems with the both of us at some level or another. U know when ur in college there is no reason for some one to dislike u or like u. Not that Ajinkya and I spoke that much in college, both of us at our own levels are introvert people.

The thing about facebook is that u meet all ur long lost friends, school and college people on there somewhere. So as most of us long lost friends meet these day we meet up on facebook. Well coming to the point, the only reason I am writing this blog about him is because he challenged me that I cant write about him as I don't know him that much. So this is to prove to him that even if I don't know small things about a personal life, I am a good reader of the negatives and positives in them, if not correct they are generally very close to being prefect.

For some reason in college Ajinkya was not liked by many people as I have mentioned before. I think college is a strange stage in ones life, but that it is also the time in ones life when we make the most important decisions of ur life. The direction we choose at that time is the one that makes us or breaks us in the long run. Ajinkya had at that time a passout from St Mary's Boy High School and gotten into the best college in Pune for Science F.C (short for Fergusson College) I don't think he liked school much, nor do I think he was interested in college, with Ajinkya u feel everything he does is a task and not liking school or college with him is normal. I sometimes think he doesn't like people either.

He only talked to like 3 people in college, I was on of the lucky ones :P if u want to call it that. It could also be cause of the fact that I never thought much of him or anyone else so we had almost the same thinking. Ajinkya was least affect or interested in what people talked about him and I was least interested in people so we kind of got along.

Now after like 3 years of not being in touch I feel like I was wrong about that guy, he is not as confused as he may seems. He actually thinks I am sorted in the head and it self proves that he lost this brain some time back.

He really think I have answers of everything. He thinks because my mom does Yoga I would know about it in detail, because I believe in energy fields and I can talk about it I have more information then the guru's who talk on T.V. He is completely mad. He is also a question bank. I am not joking I am very serious about this. He could ask u a question on the most basic things in life like why is the sky so blue? Why are there so many stupid people around me all the time? How is it that u Mallika are so full of energy at the end of the day? Where does this energy come from? All that I feel like doing in answer to these one hundred and thirty questions is :P and in response to the face I make he say that I have given up and I have no answer for him. He just doesn't get the point.

Today for that matter I asked him what he thought about the blog I wrote yesterday night. He called me back, we were talking in generally, which again included questions such as, Have u ever had a head ache because of ur mom or dad? Have u had a head ache because of a boring class at the end of the day in school, etc.. So somewhere in between the question I lost interest in tell him some thing important that had happened today, instead I told him that I was bored. I am sure by know u have guessed what must have been his next line.... yes it was "There must be a reason why ur bored so what is it?" So my point being there is not point in trying to get him to stop asking question.

Ajinkya Wadhwa is one in a million, I wouldn't ex-change him for anything. When I am irritate he is more irritating then the thing that was irritating me in the first place. He is a brainy guy but keeps making me think that I am smarter then him. (not that it isn't true) He is walking in the right direction since college and today he can stand up and face the strong winds that will come his way without fear. I can talk to him about anything under the sun and know that he is not judging me for what I have done or will do. He is open minded and closed as a person at the same time, I sometimes wonder how that works. Hmm.. There are very few people in front of whom u can be urself all the time or even talk ur mind out to and he is one of them. I am certain if u meet him, u would say the same thing. That doesn't change the fact that he has bad timing though. :P

And to end this blog on Ajinkya, I just want him to know that no matter what he thinks about my brain power, I know for a fact that if he puts his mind to work one day he will be one of those billionaires we keep reading about in newspaper. The key to his success would be giving it his hundred percent. He can corn u into believing that u are smart, talented and full of energy. U better be careful of him ;)

P.S I forgot to mention Ajinkya's doesn't understand when I am joking with him. I need to keep tell him that I am joking Arrgghhhhhhhhh... He just s...s

Thanks for the time u have take to read this blog, I hope u enjoyed reading it and I'm as always sorry for the mistakes in the blog. U guys know my problem by now. :D

P.S.S I still don't know why people in college didn't like him. Hmmm.. if any of u remember feel free to leave a comment.

Films

Some films make u think. I dont know whether thats a good thing or not. I like thinking that we watch film to forget ur day to day troubles but sometimes I like watching film that make sense. However I think they need to make film that make u think on positive lines, one such motion picture that I have seen is Social Networking.

It make one see how there are some people out there with more brain power then half of us put together. Make us wonder whether we could ever hope to influence anyone life or make a positive social change.

This film makes u see the difference between showing it, wanting it, and doing (being) it. When u have a good idea u just have one and only the smart one out of us can make these idea into reality.

Anyhow that shouldn't stop us from dreaming. I think the key element in the idea business (if I may call it so) is to be the first cause who on earth remembers the person who come second.

This world is full of sharks and being in the idea business is not a joke. We all want to have frame, power and money on ur side. Only a few of us have the luck need to have all of this. Today facebook is one of the most loved site and deleting ur account on this site is like almost like social suicide in the words of Shakti Shetty.

The brains that are need to make a idea a reality is so difficult to find. In most business it takes more then an idea to make it a reality, thats the mess up, one need re-sources, man power and people that one can trust but trust is subjective it doesn't mean blind faith, it means willingness to agree and disagree on this without holding anything against each other. But at the end of the day knowing that in a business one is on his own and should look out for one self.

Some of us know how to look after urself but forget about the others, but that not a problem at the end of the day it a team game so all of us should be equal and in the end we all shall be.

If I ever start a business of my own I hope that I come across a good bunch of pitfall right in the beginning so that in the long run I have a less scope of mistakes and more scope of success.

Cause each of us is defined by the mistakes and achievement that we have made in our personal and professional lifes. But most importantly our professional ones.

I hope that at the end of the day each one of us can dream about a beautiful future. I hope that I can in my professional life reach success at no one as see or heard of. I want to open my wings and fly, I want to touch the sky.

Know that's the effect a movie should have one u, cause it makes u want to dream, want and apply the knowledge that one as been give.

Thank u for taking the time to read my blog. Hope you have like it and I am sorry for the mistakes at may be made while writing this one. Cause I have not checked it from anyone for spelling mistakes or grammar ones for that matter.