When we are 3yrs old our family members make the choices of which school to but us, when we are in out 8th the entire family comes to give tell us what they think we should take up in our Jr.College, at this stage even our friends, there family and people standing in the college admission line like to give us some advise on what field to take between Arts, Science etc.. For me this choices was made in 10th and my mom, let me make my own choice of field and subjects that I wanted to study cause at the end of the day it was me who had to go to class and write the exam. But this does not mean that people did not come with their advise to me.
Anyhow my choice worked out to be right for me. But there are other people out there who have made mistakes by choosing the wrong subjects and some of them under pressure have also chosen the wrong field altogether. Then there is the choice of college, which lucky or unlucky is depend on the marks and field u choose. Then if u don't get into the right college everyone will come to give u advise about all kinds and types of thing.
Should we as a society subject each other to these kind of pressures. We have in the past seen the negative effects of these social evils. Young kids committing suicides and trying to runway from home.
These are the choices we face at a young age, they end up making or braking us as a person. So how does on understand or get to know in the start itself the outcome of the choice?
Then there are more choices that are of important's such who to start dating, who to make friends with, who to married to?, etc. and at different stages one will get different advise from everyone around, but at the end of the day the choices are ours to make and no one is to blame for them. In the start this is a little difficult to follow, but we have to at some age start to take the blame or credit for our choices.
I have made a lot of choices some have been right some have been wrong but the only difference between me and most others is the fact that I can now look back and say that all my choices whether good or bad have been mine. I am whole and solely responsible for them. This attitude of mine will take me a long way in my future I wish other follow my example and start taking the strings of their life in their own hand.
So wake up make ur own choices, don't let ur thoughts pull u down cause no matter how much us think about the outcome of a choice it will not be know till the end. Some times a choice that was good at the start ends up being a bad choice and sometimes a bad choice truns out to be a good one. All in all one can never tell for sure, there is only one thing to do in that case "GO WITH THE FLOW" don't fight the current cause that may not be the right thing to do or who know that may just be the right thing. Let not forget that there are chances that the right choice in ur eyes is the wrong one in mine and the other way around as well.
IN THE END WHO KNOW ?
MY ANSWER WILL BE GOD KNOW... :D
But then again u are the best judge of ur surrounding and u can help ur life make the right choice. So have faith in ur choices, take everyone's advise but make ur own choice.
A very wise man has said the choices is between the Good and Better or Bad and Worse. Because in the choice of Bad and Good we but naturally choice the Good.
That all I have to say today. Ones again thank u for ur time and sorry for the mistakes I may have made while writing this blog.
1 comment:
superb malli...firstly stop bein so apologetic bout ur writin we really like it... n start writin more often its a good read... oh n regardin the blog u wrote bout me- i was flattered by all the praise showered by my apparent divorcee romantic interest;)
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