Sunday, February 14, 2010

CELEBRATING EACH DAY WITH LOVE...

Today all around me everyone was celebrating the love they have for each other and I was looking at them as a person who does not understand why we need a day to celebrate love. Why can’t we just enjoy the love we have for the other person every day? Why wait for this one day?

Is LOVE something that we can only celebrate on days like Valentine’s Day or on the anniversary of a wedding/relationship. Is there not a need to celebrate every moment in our life, should we only wait for these days to come or should we enjoy and bask in its galore everyday of our lives?

On a day to day base we take each other for granted, we fight, we have bitter emotions, we almost make each other’s life living hell and then when these days come up it like you forget the rest and for the world u celebrate. On the other hand if we just spend nice time with each other and enjoy every second spend together will it not be a better gift then the ones give on a special occasion. Each little gesture would be a gift, a holding of hands when u cross the road, a little smile on a personal joke, a hug when ur happy, the holding of ur loved one when he or she is upset, making ur someone laugh when he is in the worst of moods, the shine in one’s eyes when you meet after a long time.

I think each person has his own thinking and mine is subjected to change, for sometimes I think we need these special days because we sometimes forget to show the other person his important and on these days we can make each other feel loved. In our day to day life we are all after growth, money, enrichment of life and things that in today world have taken the place that love and family used to have in one’s life.

But that still does not stop me from wanting to see a world in which love would be celebrated on a daily base; love is one thing that can fulfill a person’s life. It completes the individual’s life making one feel one’s emotions on a great level.

As most practical people will say ones one’s career is in place the rest will fall in on its own. I am hoping these people are right, because sometimes I feel they might just get a little late. All I hope is that we all find that special someone on day and that we celebrate each moment with them without taking it for granted. Love is a very difficult thing to find, ones u find it one should look after it the best one can.

I wish life was as simple as I wanted then there would be no ego or super ego. I wish there were thing that could make love work its magic every second of the day. I wish some relationship did not end the way they do. I miss the magic of love sometimes but then I think of the good memories I have and say it was the right thing to do. For sometimes new memories have to be made and who knows maybe the next time u get a chance to celebrate each second.

I hope that my writing inspires you to fall in love and celebrated it the best u can. I also know that every relationship has its own ups and downs and that after every down there is an up. This is what makes life interesting but don’t forget to celebrate it, they will make the good memories for u to look back on when ur old…..

You may think that in the middle of this piece I have gone to negative about relationship but I was talking about the worst of the feeling one goes through when loved one’s are fighting. I am not talking about my personal life or anyone else it’s just an outlook that I choose to write about… Thank u…

May God Bless u. Happy Celebrating. :D

6 comments:

Pratham . s said...

really a beautiful way 2 depict d current scenario through an individual's perception......

n a very down 2 earth description of d apartheid caused by d media n wat all external forces , which make majority of us believe in these 'gimmicks' ........

m happy 2 know , that m nt a part of all this.... thnks for shedding light on this.............
tc ......

Malli said...

As I said on facebook I am glade u liked my writing...

Kadambari Khaire-Ghate said...

Hey malli...well said and true i agree with u that love should be celebrated each day. Not that m against Valentines day...buy y express love only on this day that occurs once in a year. Couples should make time for each other daily despite the fact that they have a career to look for.

Hope the world realizes this soon.

Pratham . s said...

i agree der wid sweetvad.... abt couples makin time for each other daily despite d fact dat dey hav a carrer 2 look for....

coz, evn m goin thru sch a scenario....
well almost!!! :( ...

Explorer said...

an interesting read... keep going.
Love d line Lov shud b celebratd each day.... but seriously tell me wots wrong if there is a day for celebrating it exclusive..... no not the TV headline exclusiv kind but yeah ...

Tarana said...

absolutely agree with each word n thought and i hold the same thoughts in my heart.. love makes my world go round..
keep writing..:)